Two weeks ago, both of my daughters set off for university, my youngest for the first time. It felt like a poignant end to their childhood. I found myself reflecting about the past and wondering about the future. How often would we see them, and what would our new family time be like?
But it wasn’t long until I heard from my young freshman. She was having a great time, her classes were going well, and university was great. Also, could she come home for the weekend?
I remembered my oldest took comfort from an early visit home in her first year, and with both their schools a short distance away, it’s easily done.
“Yes,” I texted, “of course you can come home. Anything special you’d like me to make?”
In response came a plaintive, one-word text: “Cake.”
Cake isn’t really my thing. I generally just make cake for birthdays (and sometimes even those are celebrated with fruit desserts). But for her first visit home, I decided not only would I make her cake, I’d make it in her favourite flavour – mint chocolate.
And when my oldest daughter found out her sister was home for the weekend, she made time in her schedule for a Friday night dinner with us. Which is how we found ourselves sitting in the back yard on a warm evening, hearing stories about school, and eating a dessert that everyone (especially the guest of honour) described as fantastic.
Perhaps you really can have your cake and eat it too.
Mint Chocolate Cake
(adapted from The Food Network)
Oh this is so sweet. Glad you got to have a 'daughter' fix so soon after she left. It is hard and things change. I now find I enjoy the quiet more than I ever thought I would. Both kids married, one just down the street. But we don't see them often enough 🙂 The cake looks wonderful. I made one today but hated the icing. I will make another batch (new recipe) tomorrow and see if I can make it come together. Oh well!
What an amazing post. We have two daughters and I can picture us in this very setting in the near future. The cake looks amazing and I'm going to save the recipe to use this weeks as my daughters love to bake treats like this.
Dear Beth, that is a very sweet blog post indeed – I loved reading through it and really enjoyed the pictures of your chocolate mint cake recipe.- shiny and pretty, just perfect for your "guets of honor" and for sharing with your whole family while enjoying family time together!
A wonderful and warming post to read on a foggy and grey Monday morning, dear friend!
Andrea
That's so awesome your daughter is doing well at college and still wanted to come home. Anna Li came and hung out here Friday night before she picked up her boyfriend at the train station. She's doing great too, but is okay staying in touch. So grateful for that.
Can you send me a piece of cake? It looks delicious.
Beautiful! I love the combo of mint and chocolate..and that ganache is absolutely stunning.
Sounds and looks delicious!!!! Glad you had a great visit! 🙂
Oh, this cake looks ravishing! That ganache is exquisite.
Nothing says comfort quite like chocolate cake. I'm sure you (and this cake) created another beautiful memory. 🙂
Ah, how wonderful! Loved reading this – so happy your youngest daughter is starting to settle in and making time to come home for some comfort. Mint chocolate cake and dinner with family is just the ticket.
Lovely story. Mint and chocolate are such a great combination, it looks great.
You are such a wonderful mother (and wife and friend). It just comes through so plainly and clearly in your posts. I'm sure you already know that, but it's always nice to hear it again, isn't it? =) And what a delicious cake you made! Like your daughter, mint chocolate is one of my favorite flavors, so this looks right up my alley. YUM!
Your cake looks great! How sweet that your daughter wanted to come home. At the end of the day, sometimes that's where we all want to be.
So that's how you get them to come home! I wish it was so easy! Have to admit though, that I's come home for this! Love the mint flavor!
I remember cooking all my kids' favorites those first few times they came home from college. How nice to have both your girls home—and that you enjoyed some mother-daughter time. All 3 of mine would love your chocolate mint cake!!!
Your cake looks delicious!That's so sweet that your daughter wanted to come home! You're a wonderful mother!
Thank you all for your kind words. Amy, what a lovely message from you! It made my day to read it. xo
it's not so easy to leave home, i can attest to that! plus, if chocolate and mint cake is involved, that's just irresistible incentive! ::)
This mint chocolate cake look amazing Beth 🙂
Chocolate and mint belong together! This cake sounds delicious. 🙂 Thanks for the recipe! My kids are still little, and I already get misty-eyed just thinking of the day when they move on. Glad your girl came back home for a visit so soon!
What a lovely weekend–and such a nice cake for the occasion! Alas my youngest went to school1500 miles away so no trips home until Thanksgiving…
So that's how you get them to come home! I wish it was so easy! Have to admit though, that I's come home for this! Love the mint flavor!